Any good websites for parenting emotional children whose younger siblings seem to steal the spotlight?

Wish I could help you to the degree you need, but if your willing to put those google skillz to the test, a good place to start as far as child development go is to do a search for good old Anne Frued, yep Sigmonds daughter!!! She did A BUTCH for our understanding of child development (hint: she conflicted with her father so much, she redefined it! Yep! Little known fact) and ways of helping to take care of them. But I gaurenttee you that if you go down her path you'll find what you need..... it comes down to communication one way or another, but gives you techniques and things to consider, they are kiddos!