Parenting Help! I need some advice! 10 points for a good answer?

My 16 year old kid has behaved horribly ever since i got divorsed. He got expelled for running into the girls bathroom and then punching a girl. He and his Girlfriend were caught skinny dipping. What should i do?Parenting Help! I need some advice! 10 points for a good answer?
Talk to him. Spend time with him. You need to help him deal with his anger.Parenting Help! I need some advice! 10 points for a good answer?
he very angry child. Separation or divorce or any major changes in a child life can set off an imbalance. Maybe seek counseling for him so that he can talk it out. The dirty mag, is not an aggressive action, and you should focus on the safety issues first. Add to the separation of his parents and and teen hormone changes.


You have your hands full.





But counseling would be best do to the safety issues you are faced with him.
The fact that he punched someone, especially since it was a female, he needs to be in counseling and be thankful that he didn't get in legal trouble. Sometimes 16 is old enough to be considered an adult in matters like this. He needs counseling for sure because he's acting out.
If he punched a girl i would defiantly get him in to some counseling. he is lucky he is not in juvenile or jail. You need to get him help or he will be another statistic in prison for being a woman beater!
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Buy him a stained up ';wife-beater';, a 12 pack, and a pack of rolling papers. It might not fix his behavior, but at least he'd be more comfortable.
Take out a belt . Take away everything and spend time with him . Like going to a diner an talking about the situitions
Give him chocolate and tell him he is a good kid.